Flirting: De-coding male body language

Ladies, are you having a hard time deciding whether or not a guy likes you? He might already be sending you signals that he's interested that you're overlooking. Always keep in mind that a man has instincts he isn’t even aware of most of the time. 8 signs that he is into you:

  • A big smile – if he’s smiling more than normal, it might mean he’s into you.
  • Blushing – this occurs most often with shy guys, who are hard to flirt with. A blush is something he can’t control and is a big giveaway that he’s interested!
  • Mirroring – pay attention to the way he speaks and how he stands. Is he copying you? If so, he’s unconsciously mirroring something he likes (that something is you!).
  • The way he stands – a man will stand with his hands on his hips or with his thumbs hooked into his belt loops when he’s unconsciously trying to look masculine in front of a female.
  • Physical contact – a man interested in you will “accidentally” touch you or bump into you. If he uses any excuse to touch you, he’s totally flirting.
  • Head angle – Tilting his head towards you while you speak means he is genuinely interested in you and what you’re saying.


  • Eye contact – making lots of eye contact means he’s into you. Looking into your eyes then looking away probably means he’s interested but shy.
  • Dilated pupils – this is something he can’t control. A person’s eyes will dilate when attracted to something (and contract when not attracted).
  • Raised eyebrows – a sure sign he’s flirting.
  • Fidgeting – if he’s nervous around a woman he likes, a man will often move his hands a lot or shift his stance (you might do this too).

Happy flirting!



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